these 2 days been laughin n laughing....majority laughing at my dear nana....LOL....oways sooooo kuku,so cute,so funi,so lame,so blur n lastly,so FORGETFUL!!!!!hehehehe....hmm...then so sooo many coincidence stuff happening to her la~eg....sth to do with J...with joshua....n with number 7...hehehe....so funny!!
hmm...today talkin bt telling ppl hw u feel...!!hahaha
often the problem with us is nt tt we dn love tt person,is jz tt we dn sae it out....cos we feel so fake,so awkward and embarrassing to sae all this,n thus,we said nth...hahaha....then we start tellin ourselves 1 of these days we will tell them...bt sumtimes it is jz too late...
words r no substitute for action,and vice versa....certain tings nit to be told n shown...hahaha... sumtimes u do these stuffs n think tt yr fam n frens noes bt it,bt actually they dn....they aren't mind readers....jz as u stroke yr dog,yr loved ones nit to be stroked as well...praise them often,give them a pat on the back,hug them n tell them u love them...ppl can nv get enuf of that stuff..SERIOUS!!!hahaha..im sure tt we all want to be told often......
to ppl whom i care...tis is the ting i wana tell u all....*shy*
i'm hoping u all will read tis...im 1 of these ppl who duno hw to sae tings like i love u,i appreciate u,i care for u etc...n i guess tt i oways assume u know bt it and tt i dn hv to sae it..i find it abit weird,awkward n embarrassed to sae it,so i tend to avoid tellin u hw i feel...the truth is tt i love u all soooo much,n felt lucky to hv u all as my frens....mayb tis may b mushy n unexpected...bt tis is reli wat i wana tell u all fr the bottom of my heart...hehe...hmm....even tho i typed tis out fr my book,i reli meant wat i typed it here....serious...hahaha....i reli reli love,care n appreciate u all as my frens.... =) love ya all!!!
i feel so rou ma sia.....hahahaha....weird~lol
Wednesday, June 17, 2009
Sunday, June 14, 2009
caring n listening..n im reli dying...hahahaha
haix...today superly emo...vented my anger on my finance book!!!LOL....finance lei....crap la...hahaa...jz being random..hehe...hmm..wa...recently,tink i dying.....seriously...my chest area hurts...m stomach digestion super bad.....my back super suan n pain...my leg sum whr above ankle thr super pain...hafta ren ren ren!!!hahahaha...i mean ren the pain...den recently cos of $$ made me so unhapi...haix..pc show ended today then my beloved HP lappie pao tang le...!!sad!!
u noe wat....since tt time,i was so so so tempted to buy ipod touch...hahaha..bt then,i gt mp5 liao ma...so cant waste $$!!haha..bt i dn mind my aunt or parents gimme as bday prezzie...hahaha...bt tink too much la~~lol...hmm...basically,dn hafta waste tis kinda $$ de...hahaha....muz kp telling myself tt!!!hahaha...mp5 spoilt,den 'borrowed' fr hoon jie the mp4 oso spoil..walao...hahaha!!!den 1 hafta go kampong ampat,another hafta go jurong tt business park thr...diaoz...hahaha...worse...!!!watch strap half spoilt..then hafta go the pacific plaza or sth to repair..dotz!!hahahaha....
ok..enuf of my lo soh..!!hahaha...start writing sth fr my book!!hehe...
CARING....
tink of the last time when u talked to sum1,n u had the impression tt they r nt listening or interested in talking to u.do u feel irritated?sure do rite...!!hahaha...
to attract others,we hv to care abt them...when we show tt we r interested in tt person,thr is rarely a problem in keeping the conversation going. when we care,we forgot ourselves..we wun be bothered by 'duno wat to sae nxt...' embarrassment...caring means putting ourselves in other ppl's shoes..to listen to wat they hafta or wana tell u...
LISTENING..
many ppl want to be heard...they r all desperate for sum1 to reli listen to them...nxt time when u r talking to them,take note of whether they reli listen to u...as much as we nit air,food n drink,we oso nit frens who will truly listen to us...
tink bt it...wun u wan ppl to gif u their full attn?sumtimes itz gd to hv sum1 to take the trouble to c life thru yr eyes....u will feel connected with the person,,,hahaha...as ppl r all starving for sum1 to listen to them TOTALLY,u shld oways try to listen with 100% of yr attn,u will become a special person for them...
n yep...i hv oways been trying to gif 100% of my attn to all my frens etc...bt at times,i get distracted...at times i selectively choose ppl to listen to...like to sum ppl i dislike,i wun gif my 100%...come to tink bt it,im quite a bad person ya...haix...hahaha...hmm...i shall work towards caring n listening to all my frens...hehehe....hmm..ok...shall continue the topic another time...
u noe wat....since tt time,i was so so so tempted to buy ipod touch...hahaha..bt then,i gt mp5 liao ma...so cant waste $$!!haha..bt i dn mind my aunt or parents gimme as bday prezzie...hahaha...bt tink too much la~~lol...hmm...basically,dn hafta waste tis kinda $$ de...hahaha....muz kp telling myself tt!!!hahaha...mp5 spoilt,den 'borrowed' fr hoon jie the mp4 oso spoil..walao...hahaha!!!den 1 hafta go kampong ampat,another hafta go jurong tt business park thr...diaoz...hahaha...worse...!!!watch strap half spoilt..then hafta go the pacific plaza or sth to repair..dotz!!hahahaha....
ok..enuf of my lo soh..!!hahaha...start writing sth fr my book!!hehe...
CARING....
tink of the last time when u talked to sum1,n u had the impression tt they r nt listening or interested in talking to u.do u feel irritated?sure do rite...!!hahaha...
to attract others,we hv to care abt them...when we show tt we r interested in tt person,thr is rarely a problem in keeping the conversation going. when we care,we forgot ourselves..we wun be bothered by 'duno wat to sae nxt...' embarrassment...caring means putting ourselves in other ppl's shoes..to listen to wat they hafta or wana tell u...
LISTENING..
many ppl want to be heard...they r all desperate for sum1 to reli listen to them...nxt time when u r talking to them,take note of whether they reli listen to u...as much as we nit air,food n drink,we oso nit frens who will truly listen to us...
tink bt it...wun u wan ppl to gif u their full attn?sumtimes itz gd to hv sum1 to take the trouble to c life thru yr eyes....u will feel connected with the person,,,hahaha...as ppl r all starving for sum1 to listen to them TOTALLY,u shld oways try to listen with 100% of yr attn,u will become a special person for them...
n yep...i hv oways been trying to gif 100% of my attn to all my frens etc...bt at times,i get distracted...at times i selectively choose ppl to listen to...like to sum ppl i dislike,i wun gif my 100%...come to tink bt it,im quite a bad person ya...haix...hahaha...hmm...i shall work towards caring n listening to all my frens...hehehe....hmm..ok...shall continue the topic another time...
Friday, June 5, 2009
limits of friendship.....
jz finished watching 命中注定我爱你，sucha swt show...hahaha....nt bad la...1 of the taiwan 偶像剧 i quite love it!!hahaha...been wanting to sae tis a looong time ago...hmm..actually,to u all,watz 幸福？to me,itz jz like me,my hubby n my children being tog..haha...we go out tog,eat tog,n do lotsa stuff tog...hahaha...lame rite...hahaha...
i came to realise tt i easily get good frens...wat i meant was tt i tend to tk tt person as my bff so long as tt person treats me well etc...even regardless of whether tt person tk me as a fren anot...hahahaha...very funi me hor...hahaha...hw come ar...sth i cant figure out...hahaha...jz crapping ard la...hahaha...ok..shall start on my lil notes liao..haha...
limits of a friendship.....
-using n abusing friends
as long as tt person is yr real fren,im sure tt they r more willing to help u shld u nit any help...bt do tk note tt ppl may b willing to help,bt they r definitely nt willing to be make used of...friendship n support is a two way traffic...u nit to monitor them closely...haha...
BEING CLOSE TO PPL IS NO EXCUSE TO INSULT THEM!
every1 hv their own DELICATE egos... friendship calls for sensitivity and tact. familiarity is fine and wonderful. But let's beware of offending. I may be yr friend,bt if i repeatedly joke abt yr looks and question yr intelligence,you'll soon look elsewhere for company. No matter hw close a friendship,thrs always room for tact.
so rem,dn mk use of ppl who treat u well....instead,appreciate them well...hahaha....eh...n thrs oways a limit to jokes....dn tk it for granted..even if the person is a miss/mr good temper,thrs still 1 day when they will explode...hahaa... sayin ppl,regardless of appearance,looks,size,or anyting,do noe when to stop...if u dn wish to lose the friend of yrs....hahaha...
i came to realise tt i easily get good frens...wat i meant was tt i tend to tk tt person as my bff so long as tt person treats me well etc...even regardless of whether tt person tk me as a fren anot...hahahaha...very funi me hor...hahaha...hw come ar...sth i cant figure out...hahaha...jz crapping ard la...hahaha...ok..shall start on my lil notes liao..haha...
limits of a friendship.....
-using n abusing friends
as long as tt person is yr real fren,im sure tt they r more willing to help u shld u nit any help...bt do tk note tt ppl may b willing to help,bt they r definitely nt willing to be make used of...friendship n support is a two way traffic...u nit to monitor them closely...haha...
BEING CLOSE TO PPL IS NO EXCUSE TO INSULT THEM!
every1 hv their own DELICATE egos... friendship calls for sensitivity and tact. familiarity is fine and wonderful. But let's beware of offending. I may be yr friend,bt if i repeatedly joke abt yr looks and question yr intelligence,you'll soon look elsewhere for company. No matter hw close a friendship,thrs always room for tact.
so rem,dn mk use of ppl who treat u well....instead,appreciate them well...hahaha....eh...n thrs oways a limit to jokes....dn tk it for granted..even if the person is a miss/mr good temper,thrs still 1 day when they will explode...hahaa... sayin ppl,regardless of appearance,looks,size,or anyting,do noe when to stop...if u dn wish to lose the friend of yrs....hahaha...
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